Thursday 1 September 2022

How To Impress Anyone In Less Than Five Seconds

 How to impress anyone in less than five seconds



See there's going to be multiple situations in life where you're going to want to impress somebody instantly and what you don't understand it's not how much you talk,it's not about how long you know them, you can impress them in as little as five seconds.


Studies have shown that within the first 30 seconds people have already made judgments of you, justify how you look and how you carry yourself and anything after that, any interaction after that, they pretty much will judge you with that same lens and it's very hard to deviate from that, which means you have about five seconds to make an impression and today i'm going to show you what to manipulate to make a killer first impression let's hop into this


One. Obviously your style



 See you need to understand that your style it's like your personal brand but in the real world.


You know how like, on instagram you would cater your feed to look a certain way, well instagram is like your online avatar that's the version of you that's online.


 That same level of detail and care you put on instagram should be on you every single day when you wear clothes. 


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Two. How you smell



 Remember we're trying to impress people in seconds right, so on top of visual it's going to be their olfactory senses that kick in too. 


If you don't smell like anything you won't be memorable, if you smell horrible the memories that you're going to leave behind are going to be horrendous.


 Nobody's going to want to stay there and talk to you, matter of fact most people are going to be in a hurry to get the hell out of there because they think man, this guy is not even hygienic but if you smell great, if you smell unique it would be a pleasant memory.


you need to understand our brain has an olfactory bulb and that thing will always get sparked with scent.


So on top of being pleasant to the point that people will want to stay and talk to you, you'll also leave a memorable impression that was pleasant, so every time they smell that or think of that it'll always be in a positive light.

 

Three. Your car


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And no i'm not talking you have to have the latest bmw or mercedes.

No, I don't care what year your car is, it's all about how clean it is that matters.


 Your car is a representation of yourself, so when that girl hops into that car and that thing smells like a gym locker room because you got your sweaty gym clothes in the back, you got water bottles all over the place, it's a legit fret house on wheels, i'm telling you she's gonna start questioning whether she even wants to go back home with you.


 But if that same car is cleaned out, it smells amazing, it's like spotless, when she gets into that car her mind's racing like yo why is this guy so clean, how is this guy so clean you're gonna be the anomaly.


 

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 This is the most powerful thing you can do for a memorable impression when you meet somebody.


 You got those first two three seconds in, you wanna be here,you wanna be strong, you wanna shake the hand you wanna give them a good smile.


 See this just shows that on top of you being friendly it shows your confidence and that lasting impression will last the entire conversation.


 So now in their head they're thinking this, i'm dealing with somebody that's confident, everything you say will come through a confident lens.


 Five. You start the conversation



 You start the interaction, as soon as you do that, let's say there's a girl you like and you're the one that goes up to her.


 You're already starting from a place of power and assertiveness because you have decided when this conversation starts.


Now you can start talking to her and again you're adding to that confidence framework right now in her head she thinks "yo this guy's super confident".


 I also want you to control when it ends. see, don't linger around, don't stay there for five minutes just because you love her and she's vibing with you.


No cut it short, leave her wanting more. you can connect later so you go up you start talking to her, yeah and be like oh you know what i gotta go, i have to go do this, cut that thing short. ask for her number then you get out of there,you control the entire framework of that interaction by doing this.


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 A lot of times amongst men or even amongst women you'll want to do a comparison.


I call it dick sizesing, where you want to start measuring dick sizes, who has more, who has the better clothes, who has the better car, the better apartment, the better job, etc.


 If you work in silence and I'm talking you're just grinding right.

You're not a talker, you work and work and work you're going to be in a room and this happens, i'm telling you where you'll see a bunch of men bragging about their rolex datejust and you're just sitting there with the patek on your wrist.


 There's levels to this and it gets to a point that your work speaks for you without you even having to lift a finger,work in silence.


 That's it from your boy, see you next time.

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